Monthly Archives: April 2009

The death of Ian Tomlinson, Jane Austen, and how to raise children……..thoughts on the week’s stories.

Two stories this week, both in the Guardian, have refreshed my faith in journalism, firstly the unfolding tale of the tragic death of Ian Tomlinson, the newspaper seller who collapsed during the G20 protests in London; the other a feature in today’s Guardian about two different organisations helping troubled kids.

The extraordinary Ian Tomlinson story has been running in the Guardian all week; the newspaper has done painstaking detective work, piecing together eye witness reports and amazing bystander video footage.

It might sound odd or pretentious but there’s something about the way this story has developed that reminds me of a Jane Austen novel, in which you start out being told one individual is worthy and another of dubious character only to find, as the plot develops, that the exact opposite is the truth.

Early on, media coverage suggested that an unruly crowd had lobbed bottles at police officers tending a dying man; now it seems as if the police may have played a part in the man’s death, and the so called bottle lobbing was not a hail of fire but a single missile etc.

The other piece that has cheered me, in today’s Guardian, is a really thoughtful feature on two organisations with radically different approaches to troubled kids. Ray Lewis, hired and then fired by Boris Johnson, is a former prison governor who thinks zero tolerance is the best answer for wayward youths. Camila Batmanghelidjh is a psychotherapist who practises unconditional love and infinite patience.

Personally, I tend towards Batmanghelidjh’s methods as Lewis’s approach seems harsh and Victorian, but what’s so interesting about the feature is the way it draws out what the two organisations have in common, apart, that is, from being led by charismatic media friendly heads; both offer the young people consistent care.

The headline – ‘What is the right way to raise children?’ – implies that the discussions of method have resonance for all parents and carers. I would certainly agree, as someone who has long contemplated the difference between tough/tender approaches, although to no great practical effect!…

Where is Labour’s vision for schools?

One does not need a degree – or indeed level 4 – in common sense to interpret the political meaning of Ed Balls’s most recent speech on Sats. In effect, the schools secretary is saying: We know this system needs radical reform, but we need to be seen to be doing it in our own way and our own time.

( Read the rest of the article here……………)…

Hollywood women: then and now

Over the past forty eight hours, I have watched two glossy, high end Hollywood ‘womens pictures’ : All about Eve, starring Bette Davis and Anne Baxter, made in 1950; the other a 2008 remake of George Cukor’s classic The Women, starring Hollywood royalty of a certain age, including Annette Bening, Meg Ryan, Debra Messing,Candice Bergen, Jada Pinkett Smith.

Both films are about love, betrayal, womens’ friendship and professional ambition but one is a classic and the other ……..well, it just doesn’t quite work. All about Eve, made in 1950, remains an absorbing, ironic study of the relationship between women of different generations, with Davis playing a possibly exaggerated version of the public’s perception of her: the tough but tender thesp. Anne Baxter is truly chilling as a conniving ingenue who tries to steal everything Davis possesses, from husband to professional reputation, but succeeds in winning fame, but not real love. Baxter’s performance still stands as a seminal portrait of a peculiarly modern form of acceptable evil; the person who will sacrifice all integrity for success, while appearing saccharine sweet on the outside.

In contrast, The Women, a comedy about a group of women discovering a friend’s husband’s infidelity in a ‘powder room’ , while perfectly watchable, has no centre, no real drive. I’m trying to figure out why. Today’s middle aged Hollywood actresses look twenty five from a distance yet oddly rubbery close up, so a lot of screen time is taken up internally managing that double take. The script isn’t that sharp either. Maybe it’s because it has too gloopy an ending: lead character finds professional success, wins back errant husband. Here it lacks the realist edge of All about Eve which makes it perfectly clear: high end professionalism, while utterly worthwhile in itself, carries a high price for women. Then and now.

But I think the problem is something to do with the difference in post war and contemporary emotional tone/registers. Women, including Hollywood women, of a previous age, were much more self contained, a stoicism that, paradoxically, made their sadness and struggles more moving. We associate Meg Ryan, Annette Bening and Bette Midler with many things, but stoicism is not one of them; their high octane zaniness too often hits an off tune note for a re-make of a film about a woman’s strategic management of her husband’s infidelity. We also can’t help but be aware that these are all highly powerful women within the industry; it’s hard to see them as mere wise cracking adjutants to the all powerful man (who never appears, incidentally.)…

The women who rule our hearts not our countries.

Here’s a quick thought: in a week when political wives shone, and political husbands were shunned, why is it that we love the modern female political spouse so much? Granted, they do the job allotted to them with supreme grace and humour, but that’s the point: it’s a job and yet not a job. Increasingly, these women have the patina of both celebrity and deep political involvement, and yet they are not public figures in any meaningful sense.

By definition, politicians must make decisions that genuinely affect lives; they must take countries to war, tax the rich or the poor: the unpleasant realities of power are such that we rarely love our elected figures, except in the first post election flush, and particularly not our female ones.

Interesting then that we didn’t hear much about the women in power this week. Hilary Clinton: who’s she, now she’s got a proper job? Angela Merkel was largely derided as a potential trouble maker. As for the Argentinian President: does anyone even remember her name? No, that may be because press coverage dwelled almost obsessively on that wonky seam at the back of Michelle’s Junya Watanabe cardigan instead.

Ironically, it was much easier to see through the illusion/contradiction of political wives when Carla Bruni visited London last year, largely because she played the Jackie O role to the point of parody: all that demure Dior couture and those tiny seductive smiles. In contrast, Michelle Obama and Sarah Brown are patently sincere and caring, as both private and public wives. Even so, the amount of positive coverage given to all those women up for Best Supporting Role, rather than active decision makers, still makes me uneasy. Not about them. But about what it means for women in general.

As for male political spouses, they will always court public pity and disdain, and not just because of occasional slip ups over home viewing. We are at heart such a conservative society, we will never truly appreciate a man who takes the back seat to a powerful woman just as we rarely applaud a woman who wants to rule a country, rather than a man or nation’s heart.…

What stops writers from reading as much as they’d like to?

I sat in on a really interesting conversation earlier this week between a group of well known writers, all talking about how they read, or why they don’t:

‘ I just can’t read, sitting at a desk. Unless I’m at a desk in a library…’ ‘ I do take a book if I’m going on a bus or train journey.’ ‘I still have this idea that it’s sinful to read a novel during the day.’ ‘Me, too. I can only read in the day time if I’m doing a review.’

Two things struck me:

1) How odd it is that fiction writing is considered one of the most prestigious occupations, yet here are well known novelists who feel it’s illegitimate to read novels during the day!

2) Apart from guilty consciences, the biggest single block to these writers reading more is children and all the tasks associated with domestic/school life. (They were all women writers and I’d bet that father/writers have a different story to tell………..)

Personally, I rarely pick up a book for my own pleasure, until I have completed all my tasks. ( Except when I am on holiday.) And I rarely, if ever, get to the end of my various work/domestic lists. No wonder, then, that I usually don’t start reading until between eleven and twelve at night and that one night out of three, I am usually woken by the sound of the book slipping from my hands and scudding to the floor.

But there’s light at the end of the tunnel. We all listened with good humoured envy to one renowned author, her children all grown up and long gone from home, describe her daily routine, ‘ I get up every morning at seven, take a coffee back to bed and read for an hour’. She added merrily, ‘ I can even tackle quite difficult things because I feel at my most intelligent at that hour.’

That will be me one day, I thought. Probably in about a decade’s time….…

Latest writing

THE CRISIS OF THE MERITOCRACY

The crisis of the meritocracy: Britain’s transition to mass education since the Second World War

PETER MANDLER, 2020

Oxford: Oxford University Press

361pp, hardback, £25, ISBN 9780198840145

Cambridge historian Peter Mandler has a fundamentally optimistic story to tell about the growth of universal education in Britain over the last seventy years and one can sense his stubborn resistance to any more sceptical interpretation on almost every page of this dense and impressive history. Since the close of the ‘people’s war’ in 1945, Mandler argues, we have witnessed the rise of mass education, initially at secondary level, and more recently in higher education where participation rates currently nudge New Labour’s much vaunted promise of 50 per cent. Contrary to established narratives that have put this development down to economic growth or significant pieces of legislation, Mandler identifies the expansion of educational opportunity as the result of a constantly shifting interplay of demand and supply that has reinforced ‘the deepening compact between the individual citizen and the state which came with formal democracy and the idea of equal citizenship’. Education continues to be seen by the public as one of the ‘decencies’ of life’; hence the inexorable rise in demand for what Mandler often refers to as ‘more and better’.

In short, the people (sort of) did it themselves.

On the face of it, this is an attractive proposition, yet one that is oddly tricky to grapple with, given the mass of contradictory or partial information available to us concerning what the ‘people’ have wanted at any given historical moment or, indeed, who exactly the people are. Mandler deliberately employs ‘a promiscuous array of methods and sources’, sifting through realms of evidence from official publications, interviews, academic studies, pollsters’ findings and demographic surveys in an attempt to clarify the complex relationship between government policy, public demand and social change. This promiscuity encourages him to prosecute his subsidiary critique of the alleged tendency of academic disciplines to work in unhelpful silos. Economists and social scientists, he charges, have paid scant attention to educational expansion while educationists and political historians tend to ‘chop up long-term trends into short political segments’ with many on the left falling into a ‘declinist narrative’ in which the failures of a ‘divided’ Labour party feature heavily as a reason for a lack of genuine progress (an analysis Mandler anyway rejects). But we shall return to the problem of we whingeing progressives in a moment.…

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A Cold War Tragedy

Melissa will be in conversation with Anne Sebba about her new book, ‘Ethel Rosenberg – A Cold War Tragedy.’

Weds 15th September 2021, 5-6pm, in the Robert Graves Tent at the Wimbledon Book Festival.

More information here.

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